You know he loves the whole you when he accepts you for who you are, and sees beyond the superficial.
"When he takes you as you are, and is happy with the fact that you're not always going to be this gorgeous lip-glossed creature it shows a sign of emotional maturity and an emotional commitment,"
This is nice. (:

And i read this on a forum:
SummerGal82: Is it true that shotgun marriage wont last? I've seen alot of my gf going thru divorce.. but sometimes normal marriage also wont last due to other stuff..couples still divorce.. so it's lies on both whether they are mature or not?

lovelove: yes, maturity and how much they love each other. i got a fren, also shotgun, but worst, ppl shotgun 1 kid, he shotgun 3 kids. i think he very stress. and his mother and wife got communication problem. the wife is not working, his parents are also not working, so he got to feed 3 adults and 3 kids. he is not manager or wat, but just an engineer. at most $4000/mth. but his love for her keeps them together till now. and he dun feel a burden to have her. he was only 25yrs old then. and that was 5 yrs ago. i got a fren, no kids also divorce after 2yrs marriage. i think maturity does count but not that important yet. it's the responsibility and love. if he dun feel a thing for her means dun feel a thing at all. if he loves her, no matter what he will be with her.

O.o
Wow.

"You must move on. It will be hard, harder than you ever imagine... But you have to, cos he's not the man for you. If he really loves you, he'll not leave you stranded and hanging like this without any certainty. He is not doing what a man should do. He is irresponsible. He's not worth it. So you must move on. "
This was similar to what i told myself/people told me,after the 2nd r/s. Hahaha.
It isnt his fault...
But that was in the past (:

But i've got K now.
Someone who never fails to make me smile.
Never fails to make my day.
Never fails to make me laugh and cry watching him 'shake shake!' (: She says at.10:40 PM